A Nigerian optometrist, Chioma Onwuelingo, has taken to Facebook to advise women who are married to “wicked men” not to give birth to many children while strategically planning their exit from the marriage.
She gave advice on Wednesday while writing about the challenges of single parenting and women who chose to leave their children with their exes because they are not financially capable of taking care of them.
“Single parenting is hard, difficult, draining and mentally exhausting . But single parenting can teach you unimaginable strength, focus and can drive you to greatness,” she wrote.
”I will not LEAVE my child/children for any man. To any woman who choose to leave their offspring for their ex, you are courageous and I applaud you but I CANNOT
It doesn’t in any way make your decision WRONG, nor Validate mine above yours…. NEVER but I just don’t have the heart to do it
Some children have been left for these men and they neglected them to the point of kpaiing or permanent disability. While others turned out great
My advice is this, when you are with a Wicked man, do not birth MORE CHILDREN:
Plan your exit carefully
Get busy and start earning money
Look for help within your family and close friends
Finally don’t second guess yourself.
Be BOLD and do that which is right for you and for your cuties.”
